Within days, outraged parents — most of them white — formed a political action committee and began packing school board meetings to vox their stiff opposition. Some denounced the variety plan equally "Marxist" and "leftist indoctrination" designed to "fix a problem that doesn't be." The opponents said they, also, wanted all students to feel safe at Carroll, but they argued that the commune's programme would instead create "variety police force" and amounted to "contrary racism" confronting white children.

The dispute grew and then heated that parents on both sides pulled children out of the schoolhouse organisation, while others fabricated plans to move out of town. One mother sued the commune, successfully putting the diversity plan on hold.

As the fight intensified, Cornish, whose youngest child graduated in 2018, began to think differently nigh Carroll's official motto, stamped on T-shirts and yard signs across Southlake.

"Protect the Tradition."

She started to wonder: What was the tradition her neighbors were fighting to protect?

'Everyone smiles in Southlake'

Robin and Frank Cornish moved to Southlake in 1993, before long after Frank was signed equally an offensive lineman by the Dallas Cowboys. Back then, the city was more than rural than suburban — petty more "than a two-lane dirt route," Robin liked to joke.

Frank Cornish
Frank Cornish in his Dallas Cowboys jersey in 1994. Al Messerschmidt / AP

There weren't many other Black folks when the Cornishes arrived, simply Frank roughshod in beloved with the wide open infinite. And with their first son soon on the way, Robin Cornish liked the prospect of sending their children to top-notch public schools.

Similar many small towns in the Dallas-Fort Worth metro surface area in the early 1990s, Southlake was on the cusp of explosive population growth. In the about three decades since the Cornishes arrived, Southlake'south population has tripled to more than 31,000 residents, driven in part past a surge of immigrants from Southern asia. Hundreds more than Blackness people also moved in, though they still make upward less than 2 percent of the population in a city where 74 percent of residents are white.

With its proximity to the Dallas-Fort Worth International Airport and the headquarters of several Fortune 500 companies, the city became a magnet for wealthy professionals, with the median household income now topping $230,000.

Every bit it grew, Southlake gained a reputation in the Dallas area every bit a sort of suburban utopia, with master-planned neighborhoods and ascendant high schoolhouse sports programs. A 2007 D Magazine article about the Carroll football team's run of state championships described the city'southward "otherworldly" amuse.

"They're good at everything in Southlake," the magazine said. "If you've never been, there'due south something a fiddling Pleasantville near it. The streets are cleaner than your streets, the downtown more vibrant, the students more courteous, their parents more prosperous. Anybody is beautiful in Southlake. Everyone smiles in Southlake."

Southlake gained a reputation in the Dallas area as a sort of suburban utopia.
Southlake gained a reputation in the Dallas area as a sort of suburban utopia. Nitashia Johnson / for NBC News

After retiring from the NFL, Frank Cornish immersed himself in the identify. He began volunteering as a double-decker for youth football game teams and later served as chairman of the city's parks and recreation board. He fifty-fifty convinced a couple of ex-Cowboys teammates to move to the city to raise their children.

"Everybody used to ever recall of him as the unofficial mayor of Southlake," Robin Cornish said. "He knew everybody, and everybody loved him. He eventually wanted to run for mayor."

But when Frank died of a heart attack in 2008 at the age of twoscore, Robin Cornish faced a difficult decision. She idea seriously about moving her v children to Chicago, where she'd grown upward. Despite Southlake's many accolades, she'd grown troubled by the steady drumbeat of racially insensitive remarks — some subtle, some overt — that Black people often suffer in affluent communities where the vast majority of residents don't look like them.

I example: Every twelvemonth when Cornish's children were pocket-size, Carroll fifth graders were required to participate in Colonial Day, an educational commemoration in which students dress up like characters from the 1600s. But little thought seemed to go into what that meant for Black children, Cornish said, an oversight that became all as well clear when a classmate told ane of her daughters that she couldn't dress upwards like a nurse; she would have been a slave.

Only after her husband's funeral, Cornish decided to stick it out. Although it would be a struggle to cover the high cost of living on a nurse'due south salary, she had a support system in Southlake, and Cornish didn't desire to add to her children's trauma by taking them from their friends.

"At the time, I knew it was not the best environs for the kids," she said. "But they'd just lost their dad."

She as well knew it would be hard to discover a school district to match Carroll'southward bookish excellence.

And her children's teaching was what mattered most.

A plan to confront racism

Subsequently the 2018 viral video, the Carroll school board called a special meeting and invited members of the community to share their thoughts on how to move frontward.

Cornish was the beginning to stride upwardly to the microphone. Reading from prepared remarks, she rattled off a few of the racist comments she said her children had endured.

"The scars are there, the wounds are permanent," she told the board, as some in the audition wiped away tears, according to people who attended. "You lot all take to take a stand. You lot've got to change this curriculum. You've got to change the tone in this town."

The audience of by and large white parents clapped as Cornish stepped away from the lectern. More parents followed, each sharing stories of racist bullying that traumatized their children, with little or no consequences for the offending students.

Michelle Moore, a schoolhouse board trustee, remembered feeling a mix of acrimony and shame as she listened. She had no thought then many children felt like they'd been bullied at Carroll based on their race. How could she have been and so oblivious?

Michelle Moore.
Carroll ISD school board president Michelle Moore said the district had a responsibility to create an inclusive learning environment. KXAS

"I left that meeting saying, 'This is unacceptable, and this is not going to exist the way it is under my sentry,'" said Moore, the Hispanic girl of Cuban immigrants, who has since been appointed by the schoolhouse board to serve as its president. "We had a responsibility as a board to practise something."

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It was the beginning of a virtually two-year effort to modify the way the schoolhouse district of viii,500 students handles diversity and inclusion. The initiative gained momentum in February 2019 when a 2d video surfaced of Carroll students yelling the North-give-and-take, and again a year later when iii teens spray-painted racist slurs at Carroll High School. The school system put out a call for volunteers and appointed 63 community members to a multifariousness quango that would report possible solutions.

The school board recruited Russell Maryland, Frank Cornish's friend and a former Cowboys teammate, to lend his celebrity as a former No. 1 NFL draft pick to the committee's piece of work.

The result of the endeavor — a 34-page certificate known as the Cultural Competence Action Plan — was made public in July. Information technology called for mandatory cultural sensitivity training for all Carroll students and teachers, a formal process for reporting and tracking incidents of racist bullying, and changes to the code of behave to agree students accountable for acts of discrimination. The plan also proposed creating a new position at Carroll, director of equity and inclusion, to oversee the district'south efforts.

"The way we saw information technology, this was a fairly bones plan," said Maryland, who is Black, noting that many big schoolhouse districts already have like policies. "Just a bones plan of human decency, empathy, kindness, inclusion and understanding nearly other cultures. It's as uncomplicated as that — or so we thought."

Moore, the school board president, said what followed was "a perfect tempest."

The diversity plan was released as the country was in the midst of an emotionally charged reckoning over racial injustice following the killing of George Floyd by police in Minneapolis. At the same fourth dimension, dozens of parents who'd never paid much attention to school board meetings were now coming to comment on the district's plans for resuming in-person instruction during the coronavirus pandemic.

"How many more things can yous pile up that people are broken-hearted, upset and fearful virtually all at i time?" Moore said.

Southlake's 'truthful colors'

The opposition to the diversity program was fierce, immediate and well organized.

Moore and other lath members were flooded with aroused emails from parents. Some formed a political activeness commission, Southlake Families PAC, and started a website demanding that the board "focus on fall classes, not setting up a district multifariousness police!" The grouping quickly raised more than than $100,000 from dozens of residents, including from some of the high-powered executives and leading conservatives who've settled in Southlake. (Dana Loesch, a sometime National Rifle Clan spokeswoman and right-fly media star who lives in Southlake, gave the group $ii,000, campaign finance records testify.)

For months last summer and into the fall, the public comment section of Carroll'southward school board meetings became a spectacle, as dozens of parents showed upwardly each week to speak confronting the plan.

The Carroll Independent School District is one of the top-ranked public school systems in Texas.
The Carroll Independent School Commune is i of the height-ranked public school systems in Texas. Nitashia Johnson / for NBC News

A white father said he supported introducing children to different cultures simply argued that the district's program would instead teach students "how to exist a victim" and strength them to adopt "a liberal ideology" in a city where more than two-thirds of voters cast ballots for President Donald Trump in 2020.

Several parents said the program would infringe on their Christian values by teaching children about issues affecting gay and transgender classmates. Others warned that the board had awoken Southlake's "silent bulk."

Opposition to the diversity plan coalesced around two cardinal points: that the district'southward student code of conduct already prohibited bullying in all forms, and the belief among some conservatives that any instruction that emphasizes racial differences can but perpetuate rather than heal divisions. Some opponents flatly denied that systemic racism exists and argued that children should exist taught not to run into race.

Even Southlake Mayor Laura Loma, who'd hosted meetings on fighting intolerance after the 2018 viral video, spoke out against the programme, writing in a letter to the school board in September that the process had lacked transparency, creating a "crisis of confidence" among Southlake residents. Hill, who is white, urged the board to invite more community stakeholders into the procedure to "earn dorsum our citizens' confidence."

At one schoolhouse board coming together, some in attendance booed Nikki Olaleye, a Black 12th grade educatee at Carroll Senior High School, later she turned to the audience and declared: "Black lives matter. My life matters."

"People in Southlake take been showing their true colors," Olaleye said later on in an interview.